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Am I the right coach for you?
Thank you for taking the time to consider the possibility of working with me :)
I am the "Char" in Living CHARMED coaching. I want to welcome and thank you for considering me in your decision as you go about choosing to work with a life/relationship coach. I say work with because this is a working relationship-me working with YOU and for you.
I am a Certified Professional Life/Relationship Coach that specializes in Esteem Alignment and RESETTING various areas in your life and/or relationships.
I have never liked the term "coach" in this context. The word coach seems to have an "I'll tell you what to do and how to do it" feel to its meaning. That is NOT who I am, or what working with a Life/Relationship Coach is all about. It is a collaborative effort, it is more like working with a friend, except it is all about you!
In fact, when asked what it is I do, I often tell people I am a Spiritually based"Treasure Hunter" haha. All joking aside though in reality that is much of what I do. I have a great passion to help people that are frustrated and/or stuck in an area of their life and/or relationships. Something that I have discovered through coaching many of my clients, is that quite often there are gifts within them that tend to get buried over time. This is usually due to the various life and relationship experiences that they have endured over time. Once we have brought a few of those hidden gems (charms lol) to the surface, we incorporate those valuable little nuggets into working towards achieving the life/relationships they desire AND were meant to have.
So "who" will you be getting in a life/relationship coach should you decide I am the right fit for you?
It would be impossible to sum up who I am in a little blip here, however I do know how important it is to know who it is you will be working with.
I will try to do my best to give you at the very least a small preview of that right here.
I, like everyone else, have had various struggles and victories throughout my life. The many hardships I have endured, as well as the victories, are what I believe gives me the ability to relate to so many different kinds of people and situations. You will never feel judged no matter what it is that you bring to me.
I am easy-going, yet passionate, I have a free spirit, and a fun-loving approach to life. I respect and appreciate every person that comes into my life and I bring all of who I am into my working relationships as well.
I feel a deep connection to our Creator and I rely greatly on that Spirit within to guide me in my own life and carry that into my practice as well.
I have a huge love for all animals, especially dogs. The sweet little guy in that picture is one of those loves of my life actually. I believe that deep love, connection, and experience I have with the furry precious ones of this world is what enables me to be effective when someone comes to me with a Fur-lationship issue.
As a Life/Relationship Coach if at any time I feel like I am not bringing value into our relationship I will be honest and upfront about that. I also try hard to keep my pricing as low as I possibly can because I believe that everyone should have access to a life/relationship coach when they need/want one.
Whatever it is that brought you here, I want to welcome you and I invite you to take your time as you browse through my site. If you decide that you would like to find out if I am the right coach for you by all means feel free to reach out and we can get you set up with your free consultation.
RESET-our ultimate tool in our life/relationships
WE have to CHOOSE to RESET *always get back UP!
In December of 2019, my world came crashing down around me! I suffered a loss that was extremely precious to me and the rug was pulled right out from under me. I was numb, heartbroken, and consumed with so much pain I could barely move.
I am an avid animal lover, I have never had human children, and my pets ARE my children, I lost "my" child on Dec 12th 2019-and it broke me!
NOW this is not the first loss in my life, no not even close, I have had many losses of all kinds, and various upsets throughout my life. I have been knocked down SO many times it would be impossible to count them.
BUT I ALWAYS get back up!
This time I was not so sure. Then just as I started to pick myself up and out of that pit of despair, 3 months later in March of 2020-the world changed in an instant, and life as we knew it along with all of the freedoms associated with it, was gone without much warning at all as we all looked on in disbelief!
It was that ONE extra hit. Would I have the strength to get up ONE more time?
The loss of "a dog" may not seem like something that could actually "break" someone to many people. To me though? That little boy was one of the very biggest parts of my world! He was not even two years old and the grief was overwhelming! However, even though I had thought I may not have the strength (or the will) inside of me to get back up, I did slowly start to pick myself up, I re-aligned myself Spiritually with God, I started working out, delving back into business, even started socializing again; only to hit another big wall! A plague that took the world by surprise, and the very tools I had been using to climb up out of that pit I was in had been taken from me, again-in an instant! Now what?
That Was A Good Question-Now What?
It is not in my MO to give in and give up but I did!
For months I just went through the motions, I ATE, watched tv, drank (yes booze was my friend), watched more tv, played video games-and ATE some more! No workouts, no business coming my way, no jobs to be had, no family and/or friends to connect with.
And even worse......
No real PURPOSE and NO sense of SELF anymore-so I just kept on giving into a lifestyle that was NOT serving me well at all!
Depression has been something I had never given into for prolonged periods of time in my life before, in fact, I despise the very word. However, grief had its way with me and I had given in,,, I had given up on myself! I felt like this time there would be no RESET to be had in my life.
I DID Get Back Up!
When I lost my baby boy in 2019 that strong Spiritual alignment that I have with our Creator was at risk!
Now, I know that I am not exempt from the hardships of life, none of us are, but I guess I thought I must have been something special.
How could God have let this happen to me and THEN allow everything that I so desperately needed to help fight all that was coming against me to be taken away?
THANKFULLY that kind of thinking was very short-lived. I was able to come back into His Light.
I RESET once again and this time it's for life! We have choices every day, we all do, small ones and big ones. Living life in darkness is unacceptable! Upsets, hardships and even tragedies in our lives and our relationships are inevitable. Having the ability to RESET is a tool that is a MUST in the world we live in.
We can and will fall as we go about navigating this thing called life, but we always have to CHOOSE to get back up! Hitting my personal bottom and feeling like there was just no way out this time, then CHOOSING to get up AGAIN and RESET, has released a newfound freedom within that no one/nothing can take from me.
We can always Reset -SELF!
THAT first step we all need to take before we take on anything -is to RESET-Self first and foremost.
