CHARMED FUR-Lationships

When we have that blessed soul to soul connection with any of God's beautiful creatures, I believe we have gotten as close as we possibly can to feel even just a tiny 'PEACE' of Heaven on Earth. 

In fact, within hours of losing my little girl of 16 years+, I started writing my first book and entitled it after how these Beautifully Crafted creatures make me feel; 'A Furry PEACE of Heaven-God Spelled Backward Is Dog" 

https://charmed.groovepages.com/book

There are MANY reasons to seek the help of a "fur-lationship" coach. If you have chosen to work with me you can trust that I fully understand JUST how valuable the relationships with your precious little ones are. It is a parental type of relationship and for most of us they ARE our children, especially to those of us that do not have human children. In fact, when people talk to me about their human children, while I can absolutely understand the pain in their situations, often what I do is compare any given situation to how I would feel if it were happening to my own furry little loves so that I am able to empathize with that person on a deeper level. 

Like any of the relationships we have, the relationships with our furry little ones can cause angst in our lives. The difference is that when this happens it is most often one-sided because our furry friends never cause upset in our lives on purpose, not with intent to do so-no they do not. They love us without condition. 

However, the world we live in is not a perfect one, and they are instinctual beings as well, so they can have certain behavioral issues, etc that do not align with having a peaceful existence with them. OR, other people in our lives may not be accepting of the relationship you have with your furry little friend; mostly because they do not understand it or can even be jealous of it.

Then there is that worst possible scenario where our sweet babies get sick; worse yet have to leave this world.

I have loved and parented animals throughout all of my life. Over the past several years I have worked closely with them (dogs mostly) on a daily basis as well. There are so many factors to take into consideration when becoming a part of these furry love connections. 

There are countless reasons for seeking the help of a fur-lationship coach (see list below for just a few of them)  You can trust that I will take it of your fur-lationship inquiries or issues with the utmost seriousness. If it is something that is beyond what I can do to help, I can guide you in the right direction. I make it a point of aligning myself with other great furry-focused professionals as well. If I do not have the right professional in my arsenal (haha) we will work together to find the help you need. 

It does not matter what kind of furry, or NON-furry for that matter, relationship you are it. A connection is a connection and love is LOVE. It does not matter if it is a dog, a horse, a hamster, a fish or a lizard-when we love another being on this planet we have made a connection AND we are 

part of one of the MOST valuable relationships we enter into on this planet. 

SOME of the reasons for seeking the help of a fur-lationship coach:

Resetting After Pet Loss- Moving through the grieving process of losing your sweet little one. This is one of THE most painful losses we go through and I FULLY (sadly) understand all that you are going through. No, you are not crazy-you are full out mourning! This is a very painful type of grief and it is one that not everyone around you may fully understand. If your grief is fresh or if you have been struggling for a while it is always OK, in fact, I would highly encourage you to reach out for some help sooner than later. 

This is not somewhere you want to be stuck. It is so important to move forward so that you are able to fully honor your sweet baby's life.

Sick Pet- When our babies are sick and we are dealing with medical professionals we can (depending on your medical team and/or circumstances) we can feel so very alone AND confused. Having a fur-lationship coach can help in so many ways. We are not thinking logically at all when we go through these situations and many times friends/family cannot give you the kind of help you need. 

Quite often when we are in this situation there are decisions that we need to make that can be life changing (especially when/if we are faced with having to let our cherished babies transition from our physical lives)  and we just do not have the mental capacity to do that. A coach can NOT ever make a decision for you but we can guide you through that process. 

Match Making- This is one of my favorites! Who does not like making a love connection? I have been a student of human nature my whole life. I have also loved studying the various breeds of dogs there are for us to enjoy on this planet.

Bringing in a fur-lationship coach, especially if it is your first pet, can be invaluable in setting that relationship up for success. I can guide you through this process from a-z. Help with ensuring that you choose the right breed (or rescue) if it happens to be a dog or cat, and personality for your lifestyle. I can help with the search for you new little one as well as making sure you have everything in place before you bring your little or big bundle home, and so much more, you name it we will cover it. No matter what type of furry companion (pet) you want to bring into your life, I'd be more than happy to help guide you through as little or as much of it as you would like.  

Brand New Fur-Parent- Congratulations you have entered into one of the most valuable relationships you will ever know! Becoming a brand new pet parent can sometimes be a little scary. We fall in love VERY quickly with these sweet furry little bundles of joy, so it is only natural that anxiety will come into play at times. "Am I doing everything right?" "What IF I do something wrong?" "Do I have all my bases covered?" There are so many things to take into consideration upon entering this brand-new relationship.  

This brand new relationship should be a joyful one and as stress-free as possible. A Fur-Lationship coach can go a long way in easing this transition and set you up for a long happy and healthy life with your furry little companion(s) 

Strife in the Home- Sadly when relationships in our homes are not in alignment on a regular basis our sweet furry little ones can inadvertently pay the price. They are VERY intuitive beings and they thrive in harmonic situations. When there is stress in the home, especially if it is on an ongoing basis, you can bet your furry little friend is well aware. What is even sadder is that sometimes misplaced anger can be taken out on these precious little ones even if on a subconscious level. 

Any and ALL relationships bring SO much value into our lives and of course with any relationship human or furry, hardships can be present as well, BUT almost always having these relationships are well worth any amount of work we need to put into them. This is the kind of work that will always bring you the greatest reward of all -pure unconditional love.