GUESS WHAT? We all need this from time to time.
NO matter what it "is" in your Life/Relationships that has brought you to seek out a Coach to help guide you through to that next level, there will always be a shift/reset that happens within.
Why RESET?
Whenever there is an obstacle to overcome and/or a goal that needs to be achieved, a shift from within needs to happen. ANY time we have to overcome an obstacle or achieve ANYTHING at all, it all STARTS from within. Every ONE of us has the power to take control of ourselves and create positive outcomes in our life/relationships and it is ONLY that power from within that is capable of manifesting what YOU desire in your life/relationships.
By taking the time to 'reset' yourself and in turn one or more areas of your life and/or relationships, you will be creating a change within that will last. This is a very powerful and successful way of ensuring that you are able to have continued success in all that you desire within your life and your relationships.
Often times when we come up against situations that cause upset in our lives we tend to want to blame a person or situation, and many times there really is "something" that we could place blame on, but ONE thing is always going to be true, and that is that we always have a role to play.
Whenever we come up against the various trials in our lives/relationships, EVEN if we are able to pinpoint what we deem the cause to be; we always need to realize that we have ultimately played a part in what we are dealing with.
This is NOT a bad thing by the way!
So what does that mean?
We CANNOT control other people (nor should we want to) and the same goes, in most cases, for our circumstances/situations. We CAN choose how to react when certain situations arise and/or work towards positive outcomes. IDEALLY, in many cases learn to be PROactive in our lives and relationships as well. BUT we always need to realize that there is ONLY one human in any given situation that we have control of and THAT is ourselves.
We never have to be victims of our circumstances. Life is going to happen to us, that is inevitable, however, HOW we react to what life deals us is what will make us or break us. I don't know about you but I would much rather "make it" than feel broken inside.
You do not have to wait for issues to arise in your life/relationships either, it is never a bad idea to take an in-depth look at your life and relationships and re-evaluate them every so often, that would be a very smart and proactive approach for sure.
This RESET does not mean resetting yourself back to who you were before either, it means resetting yourself to who you are meant to be!
There are many reasons why resetting your life and/or relationships can be very beneficial, in fact, in some cases, it may even be necessary. One of the biggest reasons my clients want to reset is that they quite simply feel broken and or lost AND sometimes don't even know why!
Loss is often one of the biggest causes of that state of mind.
Loss of a loved one, which absolutely includes the loss of a cherished pet, the demise of a relationship (of ANY kind), loss of a job, not being able to achieve a sought after gaol, strife within one or more of your relationships, isolation due to circumstances beyond your control, and sometimes there is no real reason at all, there is just an overall feeling of being stuck/overwhelmed/frustrated.
There are plenty of reasons WHY taking the time to reset one or more areas of your life/relationships are so very needed. What is MORE important is THAT you have recognized the want/need to do so and you are ready to do what it takes to create the life/relationships you desire, and YES are meant to have!
When we are living with emotions of frustration, despair, anger, depression, unrest, complacency or any other kind of negative emotions, especially if it is for prolonged periods of time, AND/OR they are the dominant thoughts within you, that is a good hint that it may be time for a full "system-reset".
A full system (every area of your life/relationships) reset is great to do at least once a year and/or if you find yourself really relating to those last couple of paragraphs. Most of my clients come to me with a particular obstacle(s) or goal(s) and know exactly what they want to reset.
I use my book "Living CHARMED Full-System RESET with workbook" as a guideline when someone comes to me that wants a full system RESET. NO matter what you are looking to RESET I do have a common formula I tend to stick to. Every one is VERY unique in who they are, and what their needs/wants are, however I believe we all aspire to live a life that is CHARMED,
Comfortably Confident/Harmonious/Activated/Relationship Rich/Manifested/Ever Evolving/Destiny by Design *CHARMED*